Turn the tables – Play hard to get and make her think she can lose you
Turn the tables – Play hard to get and make her think she can lose you
Game is hard to get, that’s usually something girls do. It makes you think that you are not good enough for her and that she cares about much more than you. She plays it cool while you sweat. A good tactic is to turn this on her. You have to be cool and confident to handle it and be willing to let her go if things don’t go your way. But if you do it right, she’ll never see it, women don’t expect a guy to play hardball to hook up with them. We have indeed built up somewhat of an immunity, they are defenseless.
The first step is to make her want you – Project high status
It should be obvious, if you can’t get her to want you to some extent, then none of these tactics will work and you’ll have to go back and work on the rules of attraction to get her to want you. Once you get her wanting you, you need to ignore her for a bit. Don’t abandon her completely, but flirt with other girls as well, you might even find that some of them like you more. Try to maintain some physical contact with her to keep her heart pumping, but if she starts something, back away just a little.
As her interest continues to grow, you need to make her think she can lose you
I like to think of it as a cat fight mode. This is where you get into dangerous territory and things can move quickly. You should pick up the flirting with a second girl, hoping to pique her interest a bit as well. The important thing is that the first girl thinks that the second is interested. This will make her mad at the second girl, not you. (honestly, it should be towards you… but it rarely is) Once she’s nice and catty, you have her where you want her, go back to your normal seduction routines to calm her down and get her to like you wishes If you’ve done all these steps successfully, you’ll have a girl who thinks she can lose you and that will make her want you even more. Girls (as well as boys) value things highly if they know they have to work to get them.
When using this “play hard to get” method, make sure you are good at flirting and attraction techniques.
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