So your ex wants space? How to get them back regardless
Every breakup is heartbreaking in some way. The feelings can be especially strong if you’ve spent some time with your ex-boyfriend. If he wants space, it usually means he needs to deal with some issues in his life. These problems will come in all shapes and forms. However, there are a few steps you can take to ensure you have the best chance of getting back together.
Now, if you’ve followed the steps below and haven’t heard back from your boyfriend, it could be that he really needs space or that he just doesn’t like you right now. However, if he starts showing more interest in you, it’s a sure sign that the steps are working and that the relationship can be rekindled. Here are the steps you need to take to get your ex boyfriend back.
1. Be hard to get. Playing hard to get is a good way to show your ex that you’re not really needy and that you’re a valuable person to spend time with. However, it’s important to make sure you don’t overplay the hard-to-get game. This can push your ex away or make him think that you are no longer interested in him.
2. Stop contacting him. Although this may be counterintuitive, it is definitely a vital step in getting back with your ex. It is important that he realizes that he misses your company. Stopping communication also has the added benefit of releasing both of you from any negative feelings you may have had in the immediate aftermath of the breakup. Don’t go to extremes to ignore him, casual conversations are fine if the circumstances allow. However, looking for him just so you can talk is not appropriate at this time.
3. Remember the good times. Remembering the good times can put you in a positive mood. This will be attractive not only to him, but also to everyone else who comes into contact with you. Also, if you find yourself talking to him, it’s a great conversation. This will remind him why he was attracted to you in the first place. However, it is important not to bring up any negativity that occurred during the relationship, as this can spoil the mood of your ex-partner.
4. Open. This should be done only if you are receiving positive emotions from your ex. Tell him how you feel, but don’t seem too desperate or needy. Showing feelings is very powerful and can greatly increase your chances of getting back together or destroy them. Be careful.
While these steps alone won’t bring your ex back, they’re a great leap in the right direction.
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