How to deal with jealousy using hypnotherapy and NLP
It’s time to deal with jealousy if this green-eyed monster is ruining your relationships and controlling your life. The good news is that jealousy is a learned way of being. People are not naturally jealous creatures, but although sometimes there are legitimate reasons for jealousy (for example, a cheating partner), in most cases these feelings arise when there is no need and take control.
Maybe the neighbor has a new car, the type you like but can’t afford, and you find jealousy eating away at you. Your boyfriend has other friends to spend time with besides you, and you find yourself acting out your feelings of jealousy again. Maybe your cat likes to spend more time next door. It could be anything that triggers it, depending on the individual.
For effective treatment, it doesn’t matter what caused your jealousy in the first place. Hypnotherapy and NLP techniques train your imagination. Practitioners describe jealousy as uncontrollable imagination. People with jealous rents imagine their partner sleeping with that blonde from the office, then the imaginary scenario grows, becomes more and more vivid in the mind’s eye, then the sufferer acts on it. Although the proverbial bunny boil may be an extreme reaction, arguments usually follow a jealous imagination in relation to such a partner.
Jealousy can be debilitating, causing panic attacks, anxiety, and outbursts of all-consuming anger. Often after an argument, the person feels regret for the jealousy-fueled attack on their confused partner. This can lead to depression when they feel that their imagination and emotions are out of control. Feelings of frustration are also common, with the sufferer often questioning their sanity or feeling helpless, wondering how to overcome jealousy.
These patterns are extremely damaging to relationships, and sufferers usually bounce from relationship to relationship, their jealous behavior raging in each one. Everyone ends up the same way when their partner refuses to deal with jealousy anymore after living in fear of unreasonable outbursts for too long.
Hypnotherapy and NLP techniques make dealing with jealousy easy. Faulty thinking can be undone so that imagined scenarios are no longer important. Techniques neutralize them.
When using hypnotherapy and NLP, no counseling techniques are used, so there is no talking about how the feelings started, no exploring the history. The imagination is simply rewired so that you control it and it does not control you.
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