How to attract men by being vulnerable
If you want to learn how to attract men and your current strategies aren’t working, a good way to make men melt (yes, it’s possible!) is to show them your vulnerable side. Wait though, aren’t women vulnerable in general? Not necessarily. Women may seem softer and kinder, but each hides a tender side. This is the kind of vulnerability I’m talking about that you need to show your man if you want him to really fall for you. Of course, there’s a right way and a wrong way to do it, and doing it the wrong way will make you look fake.
1. Why men love vulnerability
Men are seen as protectors and providers. I always have and always will. It’s just something that’s inherent in our system that when we see something we love, we want to jump in front of the trains to protect it.
If you’re having trouble getting a man close to you, it could be because he doesn’t feel like you need protection. Showing how vulnerable he is inside melts the cold heart of any man.
2. How to be vulnerable
It’s not about doing anything like showing him pictures of you holding kittens and puppies. This will make you look contrived and will probably put him off even thinking it will work for him.
It’s about doing whatever you love to do that exposes your vulnerability and just talking about it or showing it to him one day. Courage is also required, which he will admire and add to the overall effect of attraction.
3. What vulnerability?
Some of you may be saying, “I don’t think I’m vulnerable… I don’t do anything that would make a man melt…” you never know. Is there someone in your family that you love? Do you love animals? Are you passionate about charity?
Any of these things can be used to show your vulnerable side. It doesn’t have to show that you’re soft, it can just reveal your raw passion for something that also turns a man on.
If you want to learn how to attract men, showing your vulnerable side is a good strategy for turning him on. My girlfriend (who is now my wife) did it to me by accident. I saw her washing her puppy. I didn’t seem to be looking at her. It was more than enough to make me feel like I had to protect this girl who loved animals.
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