5 Reasons Why Men Dump Women
I have quite a large circle of girlfriends and one of the questions that often comes up is why do men dump women? Many times this is followed by an explanation of how dedicated the woman was and how she cared for her friend and tried everything to make him happy. From a male perspective, this may be part of the problem.
Let’s look at some reasons why men dump women.
1. The woman is too domineering. Men really like a little freedom, if you insist on being around all the time and calling him every hour or so, the guy will be out the door faster than you can say “where are you taking me tonight”. Give him space and you’ll be surprised how he reacts.
2. You are too “high maintenance”. Don’t treat your partner like your own private trust fund, if you insist on the best restaurants and bars then you will drive them away. A night out shouldn’t cost $500, why not surprise him a few times and take him to the places he likes to go. Why not take him to a ball game or to the movies to see the latest action movie.
3. Nagging. I probably don’t need to say much about it. If you’re constantly telling him to do this and that, wear this and that, you’re about to lose him.
4. The S Word… Commitment. There is a time in a relationship when commitment talks are good, that time is when both are ready. If you only see each other briefly and start buying bridal magazines or talking about how you’d like to settle down, then you’ll scare him off again. If you are sure that he is the right gentleman, then there are ways to get him thinking about commitment.
5. Changes in appearance. Ok, that’s a bit of a misnomer, very few guys will dump you if you gain weight or change your hairstyle. If they do, it’s probably a blessing in disguise, as this is one relationship that was doomed to fail. On the other hand, if you suddenly change your personality, shave your hair and cover yourself in tattoos, then you may have gone too far.
If you’re reading this and you’ve been dumped or feel like that day is coming soon, all is not lost. Try to determine why you are in this current position, if it is one of the reasons above then you can fix it. You might think you’re just drifting apart naturally. Stop thinking like that! What attracted him to you in the first place?
We men are really simple creatures at heart, give us what we need and we will be as devoted to you as any puppy (but a little better trained… Well, sometimes). You will find a lot of information online about how you can win back the man of your dreams and end your relationship problems for good. Luck.
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